Anonymous asked: one of my many secrets thtat i have:i kind of like this kid but i havent talked to nor seen him in a long time.i want to hang out with him mybe but question is do i talk to him again or no?what do i say if i talk to him?

Well it depends on your relationship with him. Talk to him and see how everything works out, and if you think it’s the right thing to do, go for it. There’s nothing wrong with taking chances.

Anonymous asked: My Secret :
Im confused about love. I might be too young for it, im turning 14 in July. But i have a question, how could a relationship be so good, nearly perfect one week, and then on the verge of being over the next week?

No one is ever to young for love. ever. Unless your relationship is some kid shit. But otherwise, everyone is open to doing it. And for your question, I honestly couldn’t tell you. People change, and so do there feelings, unfortunately. 

Anonymous asked: my friends suck but i think people need to realize , friends are there as shoulders to cry on and for support , but they're not counsellors. if you really need help , its good to tell a friend because they'll support you and help you to not feel so alone , but if you need steps on how to change , ask someone who's been through it , or has been trained to help.
*not for you , but for anyone who may read this*

^ Pleaseee, read thisss!

Anonymous asked: i fuck everything up. i pretend that i don't like this guy because everyone i'm friends with likes him, but deep down it kills me when they talk about him or when they secretly tell only me plans they have about trying to hookup with the guy. honestly, i just graduated 8th grade so i won't have to be around him anymore really, but i still think about him a lot, and my friend is still in contact with him. i don't like liking him because it feels like i'm just one of many. it's not special. then there's this other guy that i dated for not that long, but he still likes me. he's been telling all my friends he's in love with me, which i think is bullshit because he has a girlfriend. also, whenever i see him he flirts a lot with me, and i just have to stop myself and be like, "no. he has a girlfriend. besides, you broke up with him." sorry, i know this probably makes 0 sense, but i just kind of needed to vent. sometimes it feels like i can't tell my friends this stuff because they're only looking out for their best interests.

You have to end things with both of them. Yeah, it’s going to be hard. Maybe one of the hardest decisions/things you’ve ever had to have done. But, you’re not going to be able to move on knowing that there may be something left between the both of you. I’m always here if you ever need to talk, hope everything works out. Let me know! xo

Anonymous asked: you said to tell you our biggest secret , well this isnt my biggest but its still something ;
so i really like this guy and he likes me , but thats it. we have chemistry and potential but we're both too shy or whatever to make it happen , so it wont , and we both know it. im just scared to death about when he'll finally come out and say that he wants to move on.

You guys need to get comfortable around eachother. It may take a while, but it’s possible. It’s going to take time, and effort from both of you, and if he isn’t willing to put effort into the relationship, don’t you do it by yourself.

Anonymous asked: now i hear that she never gave him one. two weeks later i found a new boy who swore he would never treat me wrong, and on our one month we broke up. i desperately want the relationship me and the first bf had, and i don't know if im still in love with him, but i think i shouldn't be because he used me. please help me

You’re always going to miss your past. Fall for actions, not for words, and that is a perfect example why. You will find the right person, he’s out there somewhere.

beatlanemeansme asked: its just that i've been like this since i have memory :c I remember myself being 8 or 9 and crying over the reason im alive.
I used to believe in god and i used to ask him why i was even alive or why i was born._. and i never got an answer, so i stopped believing.
You'll see, im 17, i've never ever kissed anyone, no one even likes me cuz im ugly :c and my friends? i have only 2 real ones, and they dont even live near me, the other guys at school i thought were my friends, nah, they're just cheaters and tend to use me -__- why am i supposed to do? :c

You have every right to be living right now, you’re just as special as anybody else. You should try to get your spirituality back, it will probably give you more strength in the long run. You never got an answer why you are alive or born because you are worth it. You were put here for a reason, because your life is worth living. Just because you’re 17 and haven’t had your first kiss shouldn’t matter, you’ll find that special somebody. He’s out there some where waiting for you, and I can promise you that. You are not ugly, at all. You are absolutely beautiful and I’m not just saying that. You don’t have to be skinny, or have blue eyes, or blonde hair, or be tall, or look like a model to be beautiful. You’re beautiful in your own way, and you’re special for that reason. I want you to look in the mirror and tell me two things that you like about yourself. ( I don’t want to hear I can’t find anything because even I don’t believe that. ) You have to know that you’re gorgeous and just because there’s some people who are going to put you down and make you feel like you’re nothing, it’s not true at all. In the long run, you’re going to be a better person than they’ll ever be. Having two real friends is better than have 100 fake ones. You have people that you can count on and a lot of people don’t even have that. Stay away from people who are going to put you down and if their using you? Screw them, you’re not worth that at all. You’re so much better than that. Pick your head up past the haters be strong. There will always be one person out there who cares for you. And there is someone out there who thinks you are as beautiful as you truly are. You’re so lucky to have 2 good friends who care for you. Think positive. I have faith in you, I’m always here for you if you need me.

notlikethatgirl asked: this will be long, and i apologize, but you asked, so i'm telling.
two and a half years ago, i met this guy online, let's call him A and we talked a bit. I ended up dating my now ex boyfriend, and A and i lost touch. I didn't really think anything of it, we weren't really close, he was just some guy i met online. In september, I met this guy through a close friend, we'll call this guy B, and we started dating in november. two days before christmas, i found out B was cheating on me, and had been since we started going out. for two minutes, i had a status on facebook, that said my boyfriend cheated on me, then i took it down. A texted me almost instantly and started asking whose ass he had to kick. we began joking about how we'd create a mob and kill my ex with pitchforks and what not. by the new year, we were talking all day everyday. by the end of january, we were "dating" he sent me a valentines day gift and i sent one back. by the middle of march i was planning a trip for two weeks to visit him. by the end of april, he was moving out here in august. nobody understands how i can be so completely in love with someone i've never met, and i'm not entirely sure either, all i know is that i would die without this boy in my life. had it not been for my ex cheating on me, i never would have discovered the perfect guy who was right in front of me for the last two and a half years. i guess my secret is that im completely in love with him. i just refuse to tell him until i see him in 34 days.

It just proves that everything does get better. Goodluck xo

Anonymous asked: i have no close friends where i currently live. i basically shut them all out because i was tired of being caught up in their drama. now i spend my days working, and sitting in my room doing various things by myself. im hoping things change when i move

I think they will. Start fresh with everybody, and until then, do your own thing.

c-anopy asked: thanks for the advice :) i was the one who said "same problem as the person down there. all my friends are shitty. i have one best best best friend, but every one else who calls me their friend is never there for me if i'm having a hard time, when i'm always there for them. it bugs the crap out of me, and i've never told anyone that so just thought i'd vent that. :)"
you don't have to answer this, just wanted to let you know who i was hahah. i just did the venting thing anon because i know my "friends" would see it lol. and i just wanted to say it's really nice that you offer advice and let people vent to you. i LOVE your blog. :)

Thank you! And no they won’t they probably don’t follow me, but thank you so much, and you’re welcome girl!

Anonymous asked: All my friends are guys because I can't stand girls because they're full of shit, and everyone says I'm easy

They think you’re easy because you’re always with guys. And tell them that is exactly why you don’t like girls.. Don’t listen to them, they don’t know shit. 

beatlanemeansme asked: i sure know. Thats the point of doing it, cuz it makes me feel like i deserve it all.

I know that things are hard, but you have to believe me that things will get better. Don’t let your depression beat you, don’t let it get the best of you. You’re worth so much.